You started living with someone, doesn't matter who they are; or from where they belong; their social and family background; the ONLY THING WHICH MATTERS THE MOST IS they are genuine.
Confession gives us satisfaction, but is it important to confess..?? Why can't we just silently love someone and keep the feelings hidden with us?? Well, SHOW GUTS AND SAY IT and you never know, your flatmate feels the same about it..!! Just thinking that he will say NO and not confessing is a bad option. I, prefer that you speak, and don't regret it, when sitting by a window, grey haired, that wish you had spoken. SAY IT TODAY.. SAY IT NOW..!!
Here are some simple 6 methods which you can apply to confess your feelings to your flatmate and they will certainly work.
1. Communicate with them, it will also strong your flatmate bond with them. When you do that you will get to know about them their likes, dislikes, hobbies and other things. At-least by that they will also understand that you are taking interest in whatever you are sharing with them and vice versa.
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2. Show interest in things which fascinate them, like their favorite music or their favorite TV shows or books. And discuss with them. Send them links to songs you think they might like.
3. Don't forget to drop hints time to time.
A little bit of prolonged eye contact, a subtle
touch, share your feelings with them by giving reference of a third person (make sure they are always curious for this third person),it speaks volumes, while sharing your feelings in front of them, also try to focus on their response, face expression, is there any change in their behavior ?
4. Don’t hesitate to show your excitement of meeting them,
if you are not at home call them to join you, show your excitement that you want them to join you here.
AND TELL THEM THESE, 15 REASONS WHY YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOUR ROOMI..!!
5. Find opportunities where you can treat them in a special way,
everyone loves being pampered..!! Bring fruits when they become ill, chocolates to congratulate them , its a sweet gesture to show them your feelings.
6. Introduce your roomi with your other friends and ex-roommates as well, that will also show them that they mean to you, also you want them to meet with other friends.
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in a hope that these points will help you out and if at some point of time, nothing comes to your head, simply GO and SAY IT..!!
All The Best!
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